Hi, I’m Cooper.

I’m a queer, non-binary, white Somatic Sex Educator currently living in Asheville, NC. Born and raised in a conservative Christian, working-class household in the Southern United States, I made my way to Colorado about a decade ago. There I became fascinated by human sexuality. I moved to the San Francisco Bay Area where I continued to learn and immerse myself in many spheres of sexuality and pleasure. Professionally my background is varied. Over the years I’ve been an archaeologist, barista, tutor, farmer, and cyber security professional; all of which brought me to Somatic Sex Education and beginning my practice, Follow Your Pleasure Coaching.

A close up image of Cooper wearing clear framed glasses, gold septum ring, blue collared shirt

My Approach

I believe you deserve:

  • access to embodied pleasure.

  • your enthusiastic yes, no and maybe respected.

  • to explore the depths of your erotic desire.

  • to speak the truth of your pleasure and have it held.

I will:

  • acknowledge you as the expert on you.

  • co create a plan to work with your intentions and goals.

  • be by your side as you explore your erotic depths.

  • honor my own boundaries within our work.

  • be open to feedback from you.

  • commit to my own continual learning and growth.

Related Trainings

Surrogate Partner Therapy Specialized Professional Training - Surrogate Partner Collective (2023 Ongoing)

Fundamentals of Embodied Intimacy - Surrogate Partner Collective (2023)

A Deep Dive Into Muffing - Lucy Fielding and Katie Spataro (2022)

Foundations in Somatic Abolitionism - Resmaa Menakem, co-facilitated by Carlin Quinn (2022)

Holistic Abortions Doula Training - Holistic Abortions (2022)

Certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker - Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education (2020-2022)

Pelvic Floor Bodywork - Martin Beaudoin (2022)

Professional Dominatrix Training - Academy of SM Arts (2015)

Curious about working with me?